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Working with Trauma-Induced Shame – with Bessel van der Kolk, MD

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When we begin to work through a client’s trauma history, shame can sometimes bring the therapeutic process to a standstill. So, how do we help clients begin to unpack deep layers of shame without halting their progress? In the clip below, Bessel van der Kolk, MD gets into a parts approach for working with trauma-induced […]

Bessel van der Kolk, MD, On Trauma-Induced Shame

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Trauma can leave clients with deep, debilitating feelings of shame. And for clients who experienced trauma in early childhood, those feelings may have shaped their self-narrative for years. So in the video below, Bessel van der Kolk, MD shares how he approaches trauma-induced shame that stems from childhood trauma. Have a look.      […]

How to Help Clients with Trauma Find a Sense of Belonging, with Bessel van der Kolk, MD

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When a client experiences trauma in childhood, and they aren’t able to develop crucial attachment relationships . . . . . . they may struggle to feel any true sense of belonging right up through adulthood. Instead, they can carry painful messages that they’re unwanted, unneeded, and never truly accepted. So in the video below, […]

How to Keep Relationships Strong While Social Distancing

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What can help clients keep their relationships strong even when they can’t get together with people they care about? Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT has several strategies for fending off loneliness and building relationships during the pandemic. Have a listen.      Click here for full transcript Mr. O’Hanlon: So, how do we connect with people […]

Why Do We Sing Together During Quarantine?

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Why are we all singing together during quarantine? Whether it’s balcony singing in Italy or Zoom “choirs” on YouTube, group singing has become extremely popular. So why might that be? Well, Bessel van der Kolk, MD has an idea. Have a listen.      Click here for full transcript Dr. Vigil-Otero: How can we […]

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