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[Infographic] 4 Signs of the Attach/Cry-for-Help Response

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When people are in distress, seeking out the support and comfort of others can be a natural response. But for clients who’ve experienced trauma, this response can sometimes signal something more. Their persistent attempts to elicit help from others may indicate that they’re stuck in the attach/cry-for-help response. So how can we better recognize this […]

[Infographic] – Four Key Ways Collapse/Submit Can Present in a Client

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How the collapse and submit trauma response can present in a client in therapy

Like many of the emerging defense responses to trauma, the collapse/submit response can be difficult to recognize. So to give you a clearer idea of what this trauma response can look like, we created this free infographic that highlights four key ways it might present in a client. To put this infographic together, we gathered […]

Working with Self-Harm: Pat Ogden, PhD with a Safe Replacement for Harmful Actions

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Pat Ogden, PhD, shares safe replacements for self-harming actions

In the aftermath of trauma, some clients turn to self-harm to relieve intense feelings of shame, anxiety, or even emotional numbness. Over time, these harmful behaviors can become addictive – and helping clients break that cycle can be a challenging process. So in the video below, Pat Ogden, PhD explains how she helps clients gain […]

Challenging the Fear of Abandonment, with Pat Ogden, PhD

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Challenging the Fear of Abandonment, with Pat Ogden, PhD

When a client fears abandonment, they may desperately reach out for emotional connection in their relationships . . . . . . only to feel pain and heartbreak when their behavior overwhelms the other person and drives them away. And this can especially be the case when it comes to romantic relationships. Over time, this […]

Addressing White Privilege in a Session

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A little while back, Pat Ogden, PhD was talking about resentment, and she made a key distinction. You see, there’s resentment that stems from an event that is now over. But then there’s resentment fueled by something that’s ongoing – like systemic oppression. So how does this impact the way she works, particularly with members […]

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