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How to Rebuild Secure Attachment After Trauma

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When a person experiences trauma, there’s one key factor that can play an important role in whether or not PTSD symptoms develop – and that’s secure attachment.

But what happens when someone has never had a connection to a secure attachment figure? How can we help our client build the feelings of safety that are so vital to healing from trauma?

In the video clip below, Pat Ogden, PhD and Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD highlight the importance of repairing attachment. Ruth also offers a useful strategy that can help clients rebuild secure attachment.

Take a look – it’s about 4 minutes.

For more on the neurobiology of attachment, please check out the Treating Trauma Master Series.

Now I’d like to hear from you. How will you use these ideas in your work with clients? Please leave a comment below.

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  1. Paula Leeson Wakefield, Counseling, NZ says

    I am a counsellor working with sexual abuse trauma. Last year I rescued an orphaned baby possum which I had at my practice as he needed 2 hourly feeding. So many of my clients got to see and hold him and formed a strong connection to him as he grew. It was very heart warming to see this relationship of safe attachment develop between client and Blossom possum.

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  2. Dart Cree, Counseling, CA says

    Can you (collectively, therapists) please:

    * Come up with faster/more effective ways to help us. I’ve been in therapy for over a year. Rationally, I’m in pretty good shape. But I still don’t trust people, still hate my body, still feel unworthy, “not good enough” Still have never had a romantic relationship (I’m 70. Still only form shallow friendships, usually work related, have no peers.

    * Come up with diagnostic tools that make sense.

    * Come up with better models. I don’t think it all boils down to just anxiety and avoidance.

    * Come up with ways to self heal for those of us who can’t afford 3-4 dollars a minute.

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