Focusing on positive experiences is a reflex for some, but it’s a skill that all of us would be wise to adopt. Because not only can it be just plain enjoyable to mentally relive good experiences, it can actually rewire the brain.
New findings keep showing us that everything we do affects our brain. But that is in both positive and negative ways.
So wherever we focus our attention, we’re making lasting change, for better or worse.
[bctt tweet=”… wherever we focus our attention, we’re making lasting change, for better or worse. @RuthBuczynski”]But Rick Hanson, PhD has a way that we can positively influence changes in the brain – and it can even extend our capacity for basic survival.
Check out this short (2:24) video for more.
The more we show people that changing the brain can be both simple and enjoyable, the better equipped they’ll be to transform their lives.
To find out more about how the brain can change through positive experience (and what to do for someone when good things in life just seem out of their reach), check this out.
How have you encouraged patients to focus more on positivity? Please share your experience in the comments.
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I really admire Rick’s mention of the limitations of the severely depressed person whose setpoint just isn’t ready to think/feel positively…yet!
Thinking about how Rick said to focus on the positive instead of the negative, my family is doing that right now. We had a death in our family two days ago, here in Colorado, up in the mountains. While we are all very sad about the loss of my nephew, we are also all looking forward to seeing each other, even though it’s for a sad reason. I will be seeing my sister, two other nephews and two nieces, as well as my daughter and all of us are glad we’ll be together, even though we are sad about the death. So we’re all focusing on the positive of being together as much or more than we’re focusing on the death of my nephew.
A challenge is that experiences (unintegrated trauma) may pose obstacles to the refocusing. So getting those out of the way is the necessary starting point. Since focusing on the positive is what this is all about, it’s up to the therapist to keep that focus in our own thinking as we help our clients learn their way through or around obstacles using the various methods our practice has developed.
Exactly, trauma wires you to negative, so positive is unreachable just by “willing”, it´s just not there
And if it´s in early childhood, you cannot possibly know how is it or how to take the positive
Even more, in some trauma, the positive (joy, good things) is source of pain and triggers. Some cases are more complex than just focusing in the positive.
I *love* Rick Hanson! I’ve been an admirer of his work for years. Whenever I hug someone, it’s always for at least 20 seconds, so I can take in the good. Same thing when I’m feeling gratitude for something. I want to burn them into my memory, because there are so many negative things that trump them. If I’m having a bad day, I’ll listen to the voice of someone I love, look at pictures, re-read a note or e-mail, etc. It’s one of the ways I can help myself. 🙂 I have so much gratitude for all the help Rick has given me through his work. Excited for Wednesday!
I just love this brain science research…it confirms what I have noticed happening with clients. For years I have been saying, “what you focus on grows.” Energetically how it works is…if you focus on the feelings, “I am bad” then that energy anchors in and gets stronger. For decades I have been teaching that if you notice throughout your day “What is going well” then you get more of what is going well. Thanks Rick! I love your work and I just love the science behind your work as it substantiates so much of what i have been seeing in clients. I teach Mind Energy Body Transformation that integrates all three systems into one orientation of change and the brain science work has grounded my teachings so beautifully!
Dear Rick
I had the opportunity to access to your wonderful series of “Compassionate Brain”,& its mp3 very wonderful & useful and most importantly available ,also in our country ,because of the time difference attending on midnight in this new series very difficult but I am trying not missed them ,unfortunately I missed the first session by Dr.Daniel Siegel.& it is not available offline.
I am wonder to ask you about having them offline for our country.
Please forgive me for being so demanding
yours truly
Farid
You made some great points in segtusging a medical assistant start working for a family practitioner. I had never thought about it the way you put it, but I think it would be a great opportunity to see the many reasons why patients come in, and maybe later on decide which specialist you’d like to work along side. I share your same feelings with respect to working with a Proctologist, I think I would also have to have added incentive to make it work for me.
“Not to turn into Pollyanna…” In defence of the novel, a closer reading of “Pollyanna” suggests that it is the child’s love, good will and her genuine care for others that touches so many, not just her ability to be positive. Such qualities can’t be quantified and it is well to consider all practices of mindfulness in this light: if they are not embedded in love and generosity, mysterious and ineffable as these are, they are in danger of becoming merely functional, with all the problems that that implies. So, yes, the science is magnificent and helpful, but I think it’s dangerous just to look to it for guidance.
Two men together in the relationship section! How nice! Thank you!
I concur Judi!
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I LOVE YOUR WEBINARS! FINALLY, science has caught up with what we have intuitively known for a long time…and your experts bring it to us firsthand; WONDERFUL!. When we release old traumas, negative beliefs and thoughts, the amygdala stops looking for them to stay away from them…and we stop finding them in our lives. SO REFRESHING to have the science behind it.
The first Webinar with Dan Siegel was exceptionally good. It is an enrichtmeht for Psychotheraoy work.
I am looking forward to the next webinars.
It is a great advance in applicable neuroscience, especially in systemic therapy.
Dan is a great teacher,too
Thank You Ruth for irganizing it.
I work in alcohol/drug rehab, most of whom have mental illness as well. I love your work and find it so helpful for myself as well as dealing with some very difficult patients. Thanks!
Not every technique works for every peosrn. And the same practice may not work every time. Just find whatever works for you.Your interpretation of John’s quote is perfect. If you’re in the moment/present, it’s impossible to stress about other things because, if you did, you would instantly leave the present and be in the past or future.Thanks for your comment!