Jealousy Can Ruin Your Client’s Relationships
How to help your clients overcome the hurts and insecurities that fuel jealousy
Jealousy can be all-consuming.
It can lock onto your client’s attention with an unyielding grasp, inflaming their insecurities and compelling them to think, say, or do things they wouldn’t have imagined they were capable of.
Not only that, but when clients obsessively ruminate over what they’ve lost or don’t have, they can sink deep into uncontrollable cycles of anger, hurt, and shame.
It can completely ruin your client’s closest relationships. And the pain it causes can feel unbearable at times.
So how can we skillfully target the fears and insecurities that so often underlie jealousy and help clients shift patterns of jealous thoughts and behaviors?
We called on 25 of the world’s top experts to get their best strategies and techniques for working with jealousy and envy. Presenting . . .
How to Ease Damaging Patterns of Jealousy and Envy
How to Work with Jealousy and Envy in Clients Who’ve Experienced Trauma
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD Janina Fisher, PhD
Thema Bryant, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyD Terry Real, MSW, LICSW
- One Common Pattern of Envy That Trauma Survivors Often Experience (and How to Address It)
- Specific Questions to Help Clients Access the Grief Underneath Their Jealousy or Envy
- How to Work with Cognitive Distortions Created by Jealousy and Envy
- An Experiential Approach to Help Clients Foster Gratitude
- How to Ease Harmful Self-Narratives That are Layered with Jealousy, Envy, and Trauma
When Attachment Wounds Lead to Feelings of Jealousy or Envy
Richard Schwartz, PhD Frank Anderson, MD
Eboni Webb, PsyD Laurel Parnell, PhD George Faller, MS, LMFT
- One Critical Dynamic to Explore BEFORE Addressing Attachment-Based Jealousy or Envy
- A 3-Step Process to Help Clients Heal Attachment Wounds
- How to Help Clients Experience a Corrective Attachment Experience
- Strategies to Help Clients Become Their Own Primary Attachment Figure
- Two EMDR Techniques to Help Clients Confront Feelings of Jealousy, Envy, and Inadequacy
- The Latest Research on Attachment Styles and Feelings of Jealousy in the Digital Age
How to Approach Jealousy or Envy That Arises in the Therapeutic Relationship
Deany Laliotis, LICSW Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Chris Willard, PsyD Richard Schwartz, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyD
- How to Skillfully Respond to a Client’s Idealized Envy of the Therapist
- Strategies to Address Clients Who Cross Therapeutic Boundaries
- How to Determine When Self-Disclosure Might Be Appropriate or Contraindicated
- Key Information That Can Be Gleaned from a Client’s Transference of Jealousy or Envy
Strategies to Ease Jealousy-Fueled Patterns of Compulsive or Addictive Behavior
Dennis Tirch, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyD Deany Laliotis, LICSW
- How to Help Clients Shift Out of the “Jealousy-Envy Loop”
- A Four-Step Process to Help Clients Develop Psychological Flexibility
- The Neurochemical Impact of One Exercise That Can Help Tame Jealousy (and How to Implement It with Clients)
- One Approach to Help Work with Jealousy Within a Family Dynamic
- Mindfulness Exercises That Can Help Direct a Client’s Attention Away from Jealous Thoughts
How to Work with Romantic Jealousy That Can Devastate Relationships
Ron Siegel, PsyD Thema Bryant, PhD Frank Anderson, MD
George Faller, MS, LMFT Elliot Connie, MS, LPC Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- How to Discern if a Client’s Jealousy Is Justified or a Result of Insecure Fears
- Three Areas of Inquiry to Help Pinpoint What Activates a Client’s Romantic Jealousy
- How to Address the Insecurities That Often Direct a Client’s Jealous Behavior
- Strategies to Help Shift a Client’s Response to Jealous Thoughts and Urges
- How to Work with the Underlying Fears That Often Fuel Jealousy in Relationships
- One Approach to Help Clients Who are Hesitant to Let Go of Jealousy
- How to Work with Jealousy When It’s a Justified Response to a Partner’s Actions
Strategies to Navigate the Nuances of Jealousy and Envy
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD Michael Yapko, PhD Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Thema Bryant, PhD Raymond Rodriguez, LCSW-R Joan Borysenko, PhD
Chris Willard, PsyD Dennis Tirch, PhD Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP
- Specific Questions to Pinpoint the Source of a Client’s Jealousy or Envy
- How to Differentiate Between Productive and Maladaptive Envy
- Strategies to Distinguish Between Internally and Externally Motivated Jealousy (and How to Work with Each)
- Two Strategies to Begin Addressing a Client’s Jealousy or Envy
- How Jealousy and Envy Impact the Nervous System (and One Way to Approach It)
- How to Navigate Past a Client’s Fears, Blocks, and Resistances to Reach Their Unmet Needs
How to Address the Social and Cultural Factors That Can Fuel Envy and Jealousy
Zindel Segal, PhD Ray Rodriguez, LCSW-R
Chris Willard, PsyD Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD Richard Schwartz, PhD
- How Cultural Norms Impact the Way Clients Perceive Jealousy and Envy
- An IFS Approach to Work with the “Legacy Burdens” of Jealousy and Envy
- Strategies to Address Destructive Jealousy and Envy That Leads to Racist or Xenophobic Thoughts
- How to Work with Jealousy and Envy That Results from Discrimination or Oppression
- Specific Psychoeducation to Reduce a Client’s Shame About Feeling Jealous or Envious
Pitfalls to Avoid When Working with Jealousy and Envy
Thema Bryant, PhD Zindel Segal, PhD
Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD Ron Siegel, PsyD Richard Schwartz, PhD
- Three Common Missteps That Can Active a Client’s Jealousy or Envy and Stall Treatment
- How to Approach Clients Who are Envious of Something They’ll Never Have or Achieve
- Strategies to Help Clients Sit with Painful Feelings of Jealousy or Envy (Without Shutting Down)
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For This Short Course, We Brought Together Some of the Top Experts in the Field
Janina Fisher, PhD
Licensed clinical psychologist and Instructor at the Trauma Center, an outpatient clinic and research center founded by Bessel van der Kolk, MD; past president of the New England Society for the Treatment of Trauma and Dissociation.
Thema Bryant, PhD
Licensed psychologist specializing in relief and empowerment of marginalized persons; Professor of Psychology in the Graduate School of Education at Pepperdine University; author of Thriving in the Wake of Trauma: A Multicultural Guide.
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
Professor of Psychiatry and Director of the Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) research unit at the University of Western Ontario. Coauthor of The Impact of Early Life Trauma on Health and Disease: The Hidden Epidemic, and Healing the Traumatized Self: Consciousness, Neuroscience, Treatment.
Zindel Segal, PhD
A founder of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT); Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto.
Terry Real, MSW, LICSW
Founder of the Relational Life Institute; Author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression and The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work.
Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Research Professor and Director of Community-Based Education at Boston University; Associate Editor of Psychoanalytic Dialogues and the Asian American Journal of Psychology; author of Psychoanalytic Theory and Cultural Competence in Psychotherapy.
Richard Schwartz, PhD
Founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and The Center for Self Leadership; Author of Introduction to Internal Family Systems.
Ron Siegel, PsyD
Assistant Professor of Psychology, part time, Harvard Medical School; Author of The Mindfulness Solution: Everyday Practices for Everyday Problems and Sitting Together: Essential Skills for Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapy.
Joan Borysenko, PhD
Founder of Mind/Body Health Sciences LLC; Author of New York Times Bestseller Minding the Body, Mending the Mind.
Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
Founder of the PACT Training Institute and developer of a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT).
Deany Laliotis, LICSW
Director of Training at EMDR Institute; Specialist in treatment of traumatic stress disorders and attachment issues; author of chapters and articles on EMDR therapy.
Laurel Parnell, PhD
Leading expert in Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR); Author of Attachment-Focused EMDR: Healing Relational Trauma.
Christopher Willard, PsyD
Psychologist and educational consultant specializing in mindfulness; president of the Mindfulness in Education Network; serves on the board of directors at the Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy.
Michael Yapko, PhD
Leading expert in clinical hypnosis and treating depression; Clinical psychologist and author of 15 books including his newest books, The Discriminating Therapist and Keys to Unlocking Depression.
Eboni Webb, PsyD
Licensed psychologist; specializes in DBT for trauma-based disorders and co-occurring disorders; advisor to the DBT National Certification Accreditation Association.
Dennis Tirch, PhD
Founding Director of The Center for Compassion Focused Therapy; President of The Compassionate Mind Foundation of North America; co-author of Experiencing ACT from the Inside Out: A Self-Practice/Self-Reflection Workbook for Therapists.
Elliott Connie, MA, LPC
Licensed psychotherapist; founder and Director of The Solution Focused University; co-author of The Art of Solution Focused Therapy.
Juliane Taylor Shore LPC, LMFT, SEP
Licensed therapist; expert in trauma recovery and couples counseling; specializes in applying Interpersonal Neurobiology to the healing of trauma; founder of IPNB Psychotherapy of Austin
George Faller, MS, LMFT
Licensed marriage and family therapist; founder and President of the New York Center for EFT; retired Lieutenant of the NYC Fire Department.
Frank Anderson, MD
Licensed psychiatrist and psychotherapist; program consultant for the IFS Institute; advisor to the International Association of Trauma Professionals; author of Transcending Trauma: Healing Complex PTSD with Internal Family Systems.
Raymond Rodriguez, LCSW-R
Licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma therapy with members of marginalized communities; Adjunct Faculty Member at Columbia University School of Social Work; Faculty Member of the Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute.
Kelly Wilson, PhD
Co-author of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy: An Experiential Approach to Behavior Change; Founder of OneLife Education Training, LLC.
Russell Kolts, PhD
Clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at Eastern Washington University; Founder and Director of the Inland Northwest Compassionate Mind Center; author of The Compassionate Mind Approach to Managing Your Anger.
Lynn Lyons, LICSW
Author of Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, clinical social worker and psychotherapist specializing in anxiety in adults and children.
Course Director
Ruth Buczynski, PhD
Program Co-Host
Megan Schmidt, PsyD
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Critical Insights sessions to distill key ideas (this is where we “land” the session) |
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Focus on Application sessions to give you concrete strategies to use with your clients |
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A bonus session to help you work more effectively with jealousy and envy |
Get a Bonus Session That Give You Strategies to Work with the Influence of Social Media on Jealousy and Envy
Overcoming Jealousy and Envy Perpetuated by Social Media
Kelly Wilson, PhD Russell Kolts, PhD
Lynn Lyons, LICSW Thema Bryant, PhD Raymond Rodriguez, LCSW-R
- Strategies to Help Clients Differentiate Between Reality and the Ideals Presented on Social Media
- The Difference Between Active and Passive Social Media Use (and How to Help Clients Choose the Healthier Option)
- A Multi-Faceted Approach to Help Clients Ease Envy That Stems from Social Media Use
Plus, All Modules Come with Practical Tools to Help You Take Action Immediately and Effectively
Synthesize Key Concepts So You Can Use Them Immediately
Ron Siegel, PsyD and Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD sit down with Ruth Buczynski, PhD for 8 Critical Insights sessions to dig more deeply into the ideas from each module. They’ll clarify critical concepts and break down key strategies so you can gain confidence in your understanding.
Discover Concrete Practices That Will Work for Your Patients
Over the course of 8 Focus on Application sessions, we’ll turn smart ideas into easy-to-integrate applications for your work. Eboni Webb, PsyD and Chris Willard, PsyD join Ashley Vigil-Otero, PsyD to give you specific practices and exercises based on the ideas from each module. You’ll get strategies you can use with your clients as soon as your very next session.
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