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75% Off – How to Work with Shame + Working with Deep-Seated Resentment

When a client experiences deep feelings of shame, they live in constant fear of being rejected. And they become trapped in the avoidance strategies they create to escape the pain.

But these shame-driven avoidance strategies often make rejection a self-fulfilling prophecy . . .

. . . and that can lead to resentment.

Left alone, resentment can hijack a client’s brain, locking them into black and white thinking. Everyone and everything can be seen as potential threats – including you, the practitioner.

So how can we work with clients who struggle from deep feelings of shame? And what strategies can effectively neutralize a client’s anger and bitterness when their shame turns to resentment?

That’s why we created these two short, focused courses . . .

. . . and right now, you can get them both at 75% off.

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COURSE 1 – How to Work with Shame

(with with Bessel van der Kolk, MD; Marsha Linehan, PhD; Peter Levine, PhD; Pat Ogden, PhD; Stephen Porges, PhD; Sue Johnson, EdD; Dan Siegel, MD; Shelly Harrell, PhD; and 11 other experts)

  • How to Work with Shame When It’s Connected to Trauma
  • The 4-Part Skill That Can Build Trust with Your Client
  • How a Shame Posture Impacts Emotions (and How to Bring Clients Out of It)
  • How to Break the Power of Shame by Engaging It
  • The Impact of Shame Messaging and How to Dismantle It
  • How to Shift Clients Out of Feelings of Unworthiness
  • How to Work with the Inner Voice of Shame
  • How to Work with Shame That Developed in Childhood
  • The Neurobiology of Shame

COURSE 2 – Practical Strategies for Working with Deep-Seated Resentment

(with Stephen Porges, PhD; Pat Ogden, PhD; Richard Schwartz, PhD; Thema Bryant-Davis, PhD; Ron Siegel, PsyD; Shelly Harrell, PhD; and 13 other experts)

  • Working with Resentment When Trauma Is a Factor
  • Strategies for Working with Resentment That Stems from Social Injustice
  • The Secret to Preventing Resentment from Developing: Failsafe Strategies for Helping Clients Manage Expectations
  • Why It’s Critical to Factor Anger and Grief into Your Work with Resentment (and Strategies for Approaching Both)
  • Unpacking Your Client’s “Resentment Story” – Key Strategies to Help Clients Process and Transition Out of Long-Held Resentment
  • The Link Between Resentment and Righteous Indignation (and Why It Might Require a More Specialized Approach)
  • Helping Clients Understand Resentment (and Why It’s So Easily Triggered)
  • How to Help Clients Heal Resentment That Start Within Their Family
  • Strategies to Help You Keep a Session on Track When a Client’s Resentment Is Directed at You

Register Here to Get Both Courses for $394 Just $97

Get the videos, audios, and transcripts for both courses, plus 5 bonuses

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8.25 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

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Here's What You'll Get:

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Get 5 Bonuses That Give You Even More Strategies to Help Clients Move Forward

How to Work With the Institutional Racism That Feeds Shame

Laurel Parnell, PhD   Shelly Harrell, PhD  
Ron Siegel, PsyD   Kelly McGonigal, PhD
  • How a client’s particular culture impacts how they deal with shame
  • How to help clients find the voice that has been silenced (and use it to undo shame)
  • What happens when your client internalizes shame messaging from the environment

Case Study: One Intervention That Helped an Iraq War Veteran Release Shame

Peter Levine, PhD   Joan Borysenko, PhD  
Ron Siegel, PsyD   Kelly McGonigal, PhD
  • Why you should get this one important piece of information from a client right away
  • One misconception about working with members of the military

How to Work with the Nervous System to Mitigate Resentment

Stephen Porges, PhD
  • The Importance of Helping Clients Shift Out of Their Old Narrative and Into a New One
  • Why Your Client’s Physiological Response Can Make Changing the Narrative Particularly Challenging – and How to Shape Your Approach
  • One Way to Help Clients Cope as Their Resentment Eases and Their Uncertainty Increases

Three Writing Exercises to Help Your Client Work Through Resentment

Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT   Joan Borysenko, PhD  
Christine Padesky, PhD   Rick Hanson, PhD
  • An Exercise to Target the Negative Thought Loops That Might Be Keeping Your Client Stuck in Resentment
  • One Tweak to a Writing Exercise That Can Make It Especially Useful in Treating Resentment
  • How Writing Exercises Can Be Helpful with Resentment That Stems from Trauma

A 5-Step Mindfulness-Based Process to Help Clients Release Anger and Neutralize Resentment

Ron Siegel, PsyD
  • Preparing Your Client for the Possibility of Reconciliation
  • One Clinical Choice Point to Collaborate On with Your Client
  • A Practice to Help Your Client Manage the Spectrum of Emotions That Come Along with Feeling Anger and Letting It Go

Register Here to Get Both Courses for $394 Just $97

Get the videos, audios, and transcripts for both courses, plus 5 bonuses

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8.25 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

Here's What Your Peers Have Experienced In NICABM Programs

. . . I feel so fortunate to have this access to brain power, experience and research synthesis . . .

“When I listen to the experts talk openly about their experience, I feel so fortunate to have this access to brain power, experience and research synthesis on cutting edge issues! I go back to the videos to reinforce things that will assist my clients.”

Mary Logan, Counselor
Ipswich, MA

I benefit, my practice benefits, and most important my clients benefit . . .

“I live in Nova Scotia and have limited travel funds at the university at which I work. The series provided by NICABM gives me the rare opportunity to listen to the leaders in the field. As a result, I learn valuable information that would not otherwise be available to me. I benefit, my practice benefits, and most important my clients benefit from the knowledge and wisdom I gain from the series.”

David Mensink, PhD Counseling Psychology, Psychologist
Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

. . . some dare to go the extra journey to research and educate

“These NICABM series keep me afloat, in touch, on track, well trained in my field, and more personally healthy. The best aspect, though, is that I feel validated and comforted knowing that some dare to go the extra journey to research and educate, so I can walk the path to health, and can share with others.”

Mary Corsello-Vilcheck, LCSW
Midlothian, VA

Course Director

Ruth Buczynski, PhD

Dr. Ruth Buczynski is a licensed psychologist and founder and president of The National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine (NICABM). NICABM helps physicians, nurses, psychologists, social workers, and counselors – practitioners who have some of the most significant and life-changing missions on the planet – provide cutting-edge, research-based treatment strategies to their patients. For more than 35 years, NICABM has offered accredited training and professional development programs to thousands of practitioners worldwide.

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  • We put in a table of contents to make it easy for you to find the exact part of the webinar you need
  • Having the concepts already written allows you to take notes on how you’re going to use the ideas rather than transcribing the ideas
  • Some people simply learn better by reading than by listening or watching
  • You will be able to print out and share techniques presented in the session with your patients

Angela Lawrence

“I really liked being able to follow along with the transcripts as I listened…it was nice not to feel like I had to take notes. I really feel like I remember more when I both hear and see at the same time.”

Mary Ellen McNaughton, Masters in Counseling, Psychology Counselor
Kelowna, British Colombia, Canada
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