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Changing How We Treat Abandonment Trauma

abandoned girlabandoned girlOur basic assumptions about abandonment trauma have taken us far – but emerging findings suggest there’s much more to the story.

We’ve long associated abandonment with more overt experiences (loss, abuse, disruptions in caregiving). But we may be overlooking more subtle childhood experiences that leave a similar imprint.

What’s more, we now better understand how abandonment shapes the brain, nervous system and emotional networks – and that can help us craft more targeted interventions.

And while the link between abandonment and borderline personality disorder (BPD) has long been recognized, newer findings are offering us more useful (and compassionate) ways to treat BPD.

What we now know gives a clearer direction for how to intervene when the fear of abandonment rules a client’s life.

So we brought together some of the leading researchers and clinicians – and what they’ll share could change the way you work with abandonment trauma.

— New Short Course —

Abandonment Trauma: New Insights for Treatment

Subtle Childhood Experiences That Can Create a Deep Fear of Abandonment

Bessel van der Kolk, MD   Janina Fisher, PhD  
Karlen Lyons-Ruth, PhD   Martin Bohus, PhD
  • Traumatic invalidation: what it is, and why it’s often a precursor to PTSD
  • The link between maternal withdrawal, abandonment trauma, and BPD
  • Why some clients develop a persistent expectation of being deserted – even without an obvious history of abandonment

Rethinking the Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Janina Fisher, PhD   Karlen Lyons-Ruth, PhD  
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD   Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD  
Martin Bohus, PhD
  • Subtle affective experiences in infancy that can predict BPD later in life (what the latest research suggests)
  • Why we need to see BPD through the lens of trauma
  • Two emotional networks that tend to dominate in clients with BPD (and what that means for treatment)
  • Blending DBT and trauma-informed exposure techniques – is this the future of BPD treatment?

How to Work with the Nervous System’s Response to Abandonment

Bessel van der Kolk, MD   Janina Fisher, PhD  
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD   Pat Ogden, PhD  
Eboni Webb, PsyD   Martin Teicher, MD, PhD
  • The nervous system response most commonly related to abandonment (and when that might be an exception)
  • The internal process that drives abandonment-based relationship anxieties, and how understanding it can help you craft more targeted interventions
  • Two practical strategies to ease a client’s fears that you (the practitioner) will abandon them

A 3-Step Approach for Treating Abandonment Trauma

Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD   Janina Fisher, PhD
  • How to assess if a client is ready to begin this 3-step process
  • The crucial first step to treating abandonment trauma (and why skipping it can derail treatment before you even start)
  • An important caveat when introducing compassion during abandonment work, and specific language to help you do it safely
  • The client who’s been abandoned is often missing one key ability – why it’s essential to build this skill before trauma processing

Two Interventions That Can Help Your Client Process the Pain of Abandonment Trauma

Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
  • Why Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR) is uniquely suited to help clients process the shock of abandonment
  • One method that can be effective in processing the visceral emotions and sensations associated with abandonment trauma

Register Here for $197 $97

You’ll get all the videos, audios, transcripts, learning tools, plus 2 bonuses
to help you work with a client’s pain of abandonment

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Up to 2.75 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

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For This Short Course, We Brought Together Some of the Top Experts in the Field

Bessel van der Kolk, MD

Neuroscientist and Professor of Psychiatry at Boston University Medical School. Author of The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma.

Janina Fisher, PhD

Licensed clinical psychologist and former instructor, Harvard Medical School; Advisory Board member of the Trauma Research Foundation

Karlen Lyons-Ruth, PhD

Professor of Psychology at Harvard Medical School; clinical supervisor for the Cambridge Health Alliance Psychology and Psychiatry training programs; researcher on the effects of early adversity on neurobiological structure and function in adulthood.

Pat Ogden, PhD

Pioneer in Somatic Psychology; Founder and Director of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute (SPI); Co-founder of the Hakomi Institute; Author of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy: Interventions for Trauma and Attachment.

Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD

Professor of Psychiatry and Director of the Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) research unit at the University of Western Ontario. Coauthor of The Impact of Early Life Trauma on Health and Disease: The Hidden Epidemic, and Healing the Traumatized Self: Consciousness, Neuroscience, Treatment.

Martin Bohus, PhD

Chair of Psychosomatic Medicine and Psychopathy at Heidelberg University; Scientific Director of the Department of Psychiatric and Psychosomatic Psychotherapy at the Central Institute of Mental Health; internationally recognized leader in the study and treatment of PTSD and BPD.

Martin Teicher, MD, PhD

Director of the Developmental Biopsychiatry Research Program at McLean Hospital; associate professor at Harvard Medical School; former chief of the Laboratory of Developmental Neuropharmacology; researcher on the enduring effects of childhood maltreatment.

Eboni Webb, PsyD

Licensed psychologist; specializes in DBT for trauma-based disorders and co-occurring disorders; advisor to the DBT National Certification Accreditation Association.

Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD

Professor of Counseling, Developmental, and Educational Psychology at Boston College; Author of Psychoanalytic Theory and Cultural Competence in Psychotherapy; Co-author of Applying Multiculturalism: An Ecological Approach to the Multicultural Guidelines.

Frank Corrigan, MD

Developer of Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR); NHS Consultant Psychiatrist in Scotland; former EMDR Consultant and CRM trainer; author widely published on complex trauma and dissociation

Ron Siegel, PsyD

Assistant Professor of Psychology, part time, Harvard Medical School; Author of The Mindfulness Solution: Everyday Practices for Everyday Problems; Coauthor of Back Sense: A Revolutionary Approach to Halting the Cycle of Chronic Back Pain and Sitting Together: Essential Skills for Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapy.

Course Director

Ruth Buczynski, PhD

Licensed Psychologist

President, NICABM

Co-Course Director

Megan Schmidt, PsyD

Licensed Psychologist

Staff Psychologist, NICABM

Here's What You'll Get:

Everything is yours to keep forever in your professional library

Check mark Downloadable videos and audios to watch or listen to when it’s convenient for you
Check mark A Critical Insights session to distill key ideas (this is where we “land” the module)
Check mark A Focus on Application session to give you concrete strategies to use with patients
Check mark Printable QuickStart Guide to make review and action simpler than ever
Check mark Professionally-formatted transcripts of the sessions
Check mark Two bonus videos to help you work more effectively with a client's pain of abandonment

Get 2 Bonuses That Give You Even More Strategies for Working with Pain of Abandonment

The Critical Link Between Abandonment, Role Confusion, and Borderline Personality Disorder

Karlen Lyons-Ruth, PhD
  • Breaking Down Key Findings About the Impact of Role Confusion on Borderline Personality Disorder
  • One Important Clinical Implication to Keep in Mind

Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR) – What It Is, and How it Can Help Trauma Patients Reconnect to Feelings of Aliveness

Frank Corrigan, MD
  • A Look at the Research Behind How and Why Deep Brain Reorienting Works
  • Understanding Attachment Shock – What It Is and How to Address It
  • Strategies to Help You Apply DBR with Moral Injury and Shame

Register Here for $197 $97

You’ll get all the videos, audios, transcripts, learning tools, plus 2 bonuses
to help you work with a client’s pain of abandonment

Sign Me Up

Up to 2.75 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

30 Day Money Back Guarantee

You Are Protected By
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We invite you to register for this training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.

Plus, You’ll Get Practical Tools to Help You Take Action Immediately and Effectively

Synthesize Key Concepts So You Can Use Them Immediately

In the Critical Insights sessions, Ruth Lanius, PhD and Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD join Ruth Buczynski, PhD to dig more deeply into the key ideas. Our job is to make yours easier by streamlining the information from each module and making sure each point is crystal clear. We’ll clarify critical concepts and break it all down so you can gain confidence in your understanding.

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Discover Concrete Practices That Will Work in Your Life, and with Your Patients

In the Focus on Application sessions, Ron Siegel, PsyD, Eboni Webb, PsyD and Megan Schmidt, PsyD give you specific practices and exercises you can use with your clients right away. For each module, you’ll get solid techniques and practical interventions that will help you apply what you’ve just heard.

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Uncover Core Ideas and Techniques at-a-Glance So You Have a “Cheat Sheet” When You Need It Most

The QuickStart Guide will help you stay fresh and confident as you turn these teachings into action. We’ve gathered all the essential tools and methods from the series into a concise, easy-to-use guide so you can quickly review and apply these ideas when you need them most. It’s an at-a-glance reference to the most powerful concepts and strategies for working with patients who have experienced trauma.

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Quickly Recall Crucial Details So You Can Apply Them with Confidence

Our Professional Transcript will help you reinforce key ideas so you can integrate them into your life and work. We’ve designed your transcript with an easy-to-use table of contents, clear, organized formatting, and helpful highlight quotes so you’ll have the information and exercises you need at your fingertips.

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Here's What Your Peers Have Experienced In NICABM Programs

. . . the content is clear, simple and the very latest insights from the most outstanding people in the field of trauma.

“These presentations are fascinating and easy to watch as the technical presentation is very good, and the content is clear, simple and the very latest insights from the most outstanding people in the field of trauma. You would need to read a lot of books to end up with as much good quality information as you get from watching this program.”

Liz Kirsopp, Psychotherapist
Northumberland, UK

This program exceeded all my expectations . . .

“I am always open to learning, and this program exceeded all my expectations. Even though I am very familiar with many of the presenters, to see them in action is inspirational. As a seasoned Art Therapist and supervisor, I am always looking for innovative ways of looking at the clients and treating their issues. I already used the knowledge I gained with clients, and especially in supervision. Having purchased the Gold Package, it is like always having a personal supervisor at my beck and call.”

Hannah Sherebrin, Art Therapist
London, Ontario, Canada

I am more confident in handling my challenging client . . .

“After this program I feel that I am more confident in handling my challenging clients. I have gained some new tools to add to my toolbox. I cannot recommend this program enough.”

Katie Stark, MA, LPC, NCC
Waterford, Michigan, USA

. . . evidenced based course to get a "helicopter" overview on trauma treatment . . .

“These NICABM 5 modules on trauma management is an excellent value for money evidenced based course to get a “helicopter” overview on trauma treatment from the professional experts.”

Su Keng Gan, Clinical Counsellor/Psychotherapist
Singapore, Singapore

Why the Transcript Is Essential:

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  • The transcript makes it easy to go back and double check concepts, citations and names that are mentioned
  • We put in a table of contents to make it easy for you to find the exact part of the webinar you need
  • Having the concepts already written allows you to take notes on how you’re going to use the ideas rather than transcribing the ideas
  • Some people simply learn better by reading than by listening or watching
  • You will be able to print out and share techniques presented in the session with your patients

Angela Lawrence

“I really liked being able to follow along with the transcripts as I listened…it was nice not to feel like I had to take notes. I really feel like I remember more when I both hear and see at the same time.”

Mary Ellen McNaughton, Masters in Counseling, Psychology Counselor
Kelowna, British Colombia, Canada


30 Day Money Back Guarantee

You Are Protected By
NICABM’s Money-Back Guarantee

We invite you to register for this training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.

Register Here for $197 $97

You’ll get all the videos, audios, transcripts, learning tools, plus 2 bonuses
to help you work with a client’s pain of abandonment

Sign Me Up

Up to 2.75 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

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