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75% OFF – How to Work with the Shadow Side + Strategies to Help Clients Repair Ruptures

Everyone has parts of themselves that they’re embarrassed, ashamed, or even horrified of.

Many clients go to great lengths to keep these parts in the shadows, hidden from plain view, even from the people they hold most dear.

But no matter how hard a client may try to hide their “shadow side” from their loved ones, it usually surfaces – often in ways that stir up conflict or create rupture in their relationships.

And unless the client has the skills to navigate those ruptures and work toward repair, the relationship divide may only widen.

So to give you strategies to work with both of these distinct threats to a client’s relationships, we’ve paired together two short courses – and right now, you can get them both for 75% off the total price.

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COURSE 1 – How to Help Your Client Integrate and Heal Their Shadow Parts

(with Bessel van der Kolk, MD; Janina Fisher, PhD; Stephen Porges, PhD; Terry Real, MSW, LICSW; Pat Ogden, PhD; Thema Bryant, PhD; Frank Anderson, MD; and 13 more top experts)

  • How to work with a shadow side that’s rooted in trauma
  • How to work with shame that’s embedded in a client’s shadow side
  • How to work with an anger-driven shadow side
  • How to skillfully use vulnerability to help heal the shadow side
  • Strategies to help clients embrace exploration of their shadow side
  • How to work with the impact of a client’s shadow on their relationships
  • And much more . . .

COURSE 2 – Strategies to Help Clients Navigate Rupture and Build Skills of Repair

(with Janina Fisher, PhD; Richard Schwartz, PhD; Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD; Pat Ogden, PhD; Terry Real, MSW, LICSW; Frank Anderson, MD; Deany Laliotis, LICSW; and 18 more top experts)

  • How to tailor your repair work to complement your client’s attachment style
  • How to work with trauma that distorts a client’s perception of rupture
  • Why the nervous system’s response can complicate repair
  • How to work with clients who think repair is not possible
  • Expert strategies for navigating ruptures in the therapeutic relationship
  • How to help clients overcome patterns of conflict avoidance
  • Strategies to help clients who struggle with attunement
  • And much more . . .

Register Here to Get Both Courses for $394 Just $97

Get the videos, audios, transcripts, and learning tools for both courses, plus 5 bonus sessions

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Up to 18.25 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

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We invite you to register for this training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.

Here's What You'll Get:

Everything is yours to keep forever in your professional library

Check mark Downloadable videos so you can watch at your convenience, on any device
Check mark Audio recordings you can download and listen to at home, in the car, at the gym or wherever you like
Check mark TalkBack Segments to distill key ideas (this is where we “land” the session)
Check mark Next Week in Your Practice sessions to give you concrete strategies to use with clients
Check mark Professionally-formatted transcripts of the sessions, to make review and action simple
Check mark Three downloadable bonus videos to help clients integrate and heal their shadow parts
Check mark Two downloadable bonus videos to help clients repair rupture

Get 5 Bonuses That Give You Even More Strategies to Help Clients Move Forward

Bonus 1 | How to Work with Shadow Parts That Stem from Childhood Trauma

Lynn Lyons, LICSW
  • How to Work with a Trauma-Based Shadow That Constantly Feels Weak and Afraid
  • How to Uncover a Shadow Side That Lies Beneath a Client’s Anxiety

Bonus 2 | How to Decrease Shame and Help Clients Develop Compassion for Their Shadow

Russell Kolts, PhD
  • How to Work with Clients Who Focus Soley on Their Shadow and Help Them See Their Virtuous Parts
  • One Specific Question That Can Help Clients Cultivate Compassion for Their Shadow

Bonus 3 | Developing Tolerance for the Shadow in a Relationship

Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
  • How to Work with the Shadow Side in Couples When There’s a History of Trauma
  • A 2-Step Process to Help Couples Develop Limits, Tolerance, and Trust

Bonus 4 | How to Work with a Client’s Internal Ruptures Using a Parts Approach

Richard Schwartz, PhD   Frank Anderson, MD  
Pat Ogden, PhD   Chris Irons, PhD
  • Why a Client’s Internal Ruptures Often Need to Be Addressed Before They Can Attempt Repair with Others
  • A Three-Step Strategy to Help Clients Reconcile Conflicting Internal Parts
  • How to Help Clients Cultivate Compassion to Soothe Their Vulnerable Parts
  • How to Work with Polarized “Victim-Perpetrator” Parts That Often Stem from Trauma

Bonus 5 | How to Help Families Navigate the Process of Repairing Ruptures

Eboni Webb, PsyD   Chris Willard, PsyD
  • Two Specific Approaches To Help Teach Parents Repair (and Model It for Their Children)
  • How to Work with Family Members Who Struggle with Empathy
  • Common Challenges That Can Prevent Repair within Families (and How to Overcome Them)

Register Here to Get Both Courses for $394 Just $97

Get the videos, audios, transcripts, and learning tools for both courses, plus 5 bonus sessions

Sign Me Up

Up to 18.25 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

30 Day Money Back Guarantee

You Are Protected By
NICABM’s Money-Back Guarantee

We invite you to register for this training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.

Here's What Your Peers Have Experienced In NICABM Programs

. . . I feel so fortunate to have this access to brain power, experience and research synthesis . . .

“When I listen to the experts talk openly about their experience, I feel so fortunate to have this access to brain power, experience and research synthesis on cutting edge issues! I go back to the videos to reinforce things that will assist my clients.”

Mary Logan, Counselor
Ipswich, MA

I benefit, my practice benefits, and most important my clients benefit . . .

“I live in Nova Scotia and have limited travel funds at the university at which I work. The series provided by NICABM gives me the rare opportunity to listen to the leaders in the field. As a result, I learn valuable information that would not otherwise be available to me. I benefit, my practice benefits, and most important my clients benefit from the knowledge and wisdom I gain from the series.”

David Mensink, PhD Counseling Psychology, Psychologist
Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

. . . some dare to go the extra journey to research and educate

“These NICABM series keep me afloat, in touch, on track, well trained in my field, and more personally healthy. The best aspect, though, is that I feel validated and comforted knowing that some dare to go the extra journey to research and educate, so I can walk the path to health, and can share with others.”

Mary Corsello-Vilcheck, LCSW
Midlothian, VA

Course Director

Ruth Buczynski, PhD

Dr. Ruth Buczynski is a licensed psychologist and founder and president of The National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine (NICABM). NICABM helps physicians, nurses, psychologists, social workers, and counselors – practitioners who have some of the most significant and life-changing missions on the planet – provide cutting-edge, research-based treatment strategies to their patients. For more than 35 years, NICABM has offered accredited training and professional development programs to thousands of practitioners worldwide.

Why the Transcript Is Essential:

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  • The transcript makes it easy to go back and double check concepts, citations and names that are mentioned
  • We put in a table of contents to make it easy for you to find the exact part of the webinar you need
  • Having the concepts already written allows you to take notes on how you’re going to use the ideas rather than transcribing the ideas
  • Some people simply learn better by reading than by listening or watching
  • You will be able to print out and share techniques presented in the session with your patients

Angela Lawrence

“I really liked being able to follow along with the transcripts as I listened…it was nice not to feel like I had to take notes. I really feel like I remember more when I both hear and see at the same time.”

Mary Ellen McNaughton, Masters in Counseling, Psychology Counselor
Kelowna, British Colombia, Canada
30 Day Money Back Guarantee

You Are Protected By
NICABM’s Money-Back Guarantee

We invite you to register for this training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.

Register Here to Get Both Courses for $394 Just $97

Get the videos, audios, transcripts, and learning tools for both courses, plus 5 bonus sessions

Sign Me Up

Up to 18.25 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.

Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures

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