Clients often try to avoid the things that scare them. After all, fear is a natural way of protecting the body from a potential threat. . .
. . . but when our clients become trapped in a cycle of fear and worry, it can keep them from the things they value most. So how can we help clients see the cost of fear — as well as the benefit of working through some discomfort to reach their goals?
In the infographic below, we’ve developed four questions you can ask to help guide clients through their fear and anxiety. This is based on the work of Kelly McGonigal, PhD.
Have a look.
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Adapted from Kelly McGonigal, PhD
When fear takes hold, it may cause your client to avoid the activities they most enjoy, or even shy away from the people they hold most dear. But asking clients these four questions can help them move beyond their fear and anxiety.
- 1. What do you lose when you give in to fear?
- 2. What do you gain by choosing the anxiety-provoking option?
- 3. What strategies can help you manage the temporary anxiety?
- 4. How can you acknowledge your own courage?
Your client may find that their fear causes them to miss opportunities, lose independence, or even neglect their relationships. Identifying those meaningful parts of life that fear blocks can be a powerful motivator.
Helping clients envision the self-confidence, meaningful relationships, and positive experiences that are often just on the other side of fear can be a key step in shifting their response.
Mindfulness can be particularly effective in helping clients stay grounded in the face of anxiety. You may try strategies such as bringing awareness to the breath or setting a specific intention.
Facing fear is a major accomplishment. That’s why it can be critical to help your client celebrate their ability to tolerate discomfort, or appreciate their willingness to even try.
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Now we’d like to hear from you. How do you work with clients who want to conquer their worst fears? Please let us know in the comments below.
For more strategies to help clients face fear and anxiety, check out these free resources: